Secrets

I dont understand why must ppl create misunderstandings by being silent?yes i know by talking too much u might create more disasters but hey thats life right?
But how about couples?aren;t they suppose to share everything in life?yes u have ur own privacy but whats this rule of "if its not important i fail to see the need for saying it?" is this somewhat a way of saying "i need my own space and secrets so buzz off!" ?well to me its not that we cant keep secrets but i am more than willing to tell every secret i have to my beloved even though it might cause him to be angry, hey if u dont want this then dont do whatever it is in the first place right?
So the question remains....should tell?or not to tell....or just telling what is needed and leave the rest to urself?i guess everyone has their own perspective in this manner and this varies according to everyones personality,but i dont really want secrets...i wanna share it with the one i trust the most,i guess everyone needs to talk about it sooner or later...this is what tention is all about...secrets....conspiracy....pressure....why add to the list right?